Thursday, February 17, 2011

Dreams


Sweet Bobbi, from Gracie Owns Me, posted a very interesting text regarding Recurring Dreams. It is a neat post and you should go there and read it, if you haven't yet.

She made me think about the subject last night. Going back there today, I read the various comments left by her friends, and the many different views they have as for the purpose or reasons for our dreams. May they be whatever they are, good or bad - the dreams, I mean.

I have absolutely no expertise on the subject. In fact, I have no expertise in anything!

I have a belief, though. A mix of faith and happy wish. A sort of philosophy of life.  And that includes the dreams, as a source or a means that we have to see and feel, and even sometimes predict things. A method of communication, if one so chooses.

It is my belief that, while asleep, our bodies rest while our real "selves" can be liberated from the attachments of a daily life, and go! Go wander and investigate. Go and have fun. Go and meet those who have already left. Go and learn.

Oh, well. I know that there are many people that will be very upset right now. I would say that relief is just one click away. Click out and come back another time, then. When I am talking about something else - if you want to.

I am entitled to my own faith and have no intention to offend those who do not think or believe as I do. Fair is fair.

I am a Spiritualist and see life and death in a different manner. Some may think like me, as many may not. But it does not matter. Faith is a private thing, right?

So, as I was saying, dreams are (to me) not only the reliving of daily experiences. Yes, sometimes they are. But, if you work on it, relax your mind and train yourself, dreams can be an interesting learning experience.

Let me leave it like that.

I will tell you, though, two of my dream experiences which I find interesting.

I have had a specific dream, since I was very young. In it, I am driving a car, going somewhere I did not know. On the right hand side of the road, there was an area that looked like a forest to me. On the left hand side, I could see a town down the hill, its lights and a bridge. An interesting looking bridge. Another interesting detail was that it was always night time on my dream.

And I had never been to such a place in my whole life. It kept on coming back, over and over again. To the point that, after a while, I could see certain details of the area. Still not capable of recognising the place, I started considering the dream just weird. I even thought about a past life or something like that.

A few years ago, past my fifty something years of age, I am driving to work. I was an Overnight Stocker for the Walmart in a little town not far from home. All of a sudden, I had this huge Déjà Vu. The night drive, the road up the hill, the trees on the right of the road, the little town down at the bottom of the left side!

It was too strong. I had to park the car for a while and look around. It made me want to cry, I don't know why. The emotion was too strong. The place exists, it is there and I knew it!

You see, who knew that I, at 45 years old would leave my country, would live in a small town in the US? Who could predict that I would have to drive at night to work - NEVER in my country! I would NEVER work at night in my country!

I was not complete in my country. I had no purpose - or so I felt. As I wondered what would happen to me in my future, that dream kept on re-occurring. Strange? Yes, but fascinating at the same time.

Another time I had a dream that woke me up crying. I felt desperate! I was around my twenties, as I remember. I was in such distress that my mother woke up and came to check on me. I did not recall the dream as I still do not. The only thing I said to my mother was:

- Something happened to "uncle" Marcelo. I know it!!

And I could not stop crying. It hurt. What I was feeling was terribly sad and strange. And scary!

"Uncle" Marcelo was married to one of my mother's best friends. And they lived in a small town far from us. By the beach. And they did not have a telephone at the time. I spent the whole day with that awful feeling.

Months later, we went on vacation and stopped at their house on the way. They were fine and we had a good time with them. All of a sudden my mom remembered my dream and asked them if anything had happened to them on such and such date. My mom had it written down somewhere.

Yes!

They were astonished with her question and told us that their house had been invaded by two guys with knives that wanted to rob them. And they fought back. They told us the whole story and also that my "uncle" Marcelo had been stabbed three times on the stomach. On that very same date!!!

I give you my word! That very same night!

Dreams can be more than reliving daytime experiences. I tell you.

Love ya!

9 comments:

sandy said...

Totally agree with you about the adventures we go on in our dreamtime. I have definitely made contact with family that have gone on, although not a lot Deja Vue - I have experienced it also and still scratch my head over it.anyway, loved your post..

Sharon said...

I feel like my dreams with family that have passed are very real and I consider them a visit. I seldom dream of people who are alive, I am usually alone, I may be screaming or talking to someone in the background so I know someone is there. Of course, the "crazy" dreams that I have, are just that, probably brought on by a sour stomach or the need to get up and use the bathroom. LOL!

I enjoyed your post!

Bobbie said...

You're post gave me goosebumps Mariam! I do love the way you think, and how you remind us all that we are individuals with our own thoughts, faith etc. Beliefs are not true beliefs if someone 'forces' you to believe them.

I had a recurring dream about going some where far away, and being on a rollar coaster and trying to find my way to this certain place. Then after I met Gary online, I was traveling to Indiana for the first time (550 miles away) and I came across a bridge that brought back my dream - something like you're dream about the 2 sides of the road - and I felt SOMETHING but can't describe... it was like I was there before.

I loved hearing about your dreams and thoughts AND the one about uncle Marcelo... I have a story about my mom and a dream she had that's really interesting but too long to tell - When my book comes out you can read it> LOL

This was great. THANKS for sharing!

Inger said...

Great post. I also feel that dreams are our way of exploring parts of ourselves that are covered up while we are awake. And visit those who are no longer with us. I have never had a dream like you did about your uncle. That was hair raising, or as Bobbi said, gave me goosebumps.--Inger

TexWisGirl said...

I really liked this post. And I am very much in tune with your thoughts on dreams. I think in our waking hours, we forget so much of what we could have learned from our subconsious state and dreams. And sometimes they are stress dreams from our daylight life and other times they are messages from our higher self, perhaps other souls we are attached to, trying to guide us along as we make this journey.

(I also believe in reincarnation, btw. And aliens. How can we discount the possibility of almost anything?) :)

Janice Grinyer said...

I come from a long line of women dreamers in my family - I think its handed down generation to generation; my youngest daughter dreams vividly too...I bet its that way for your family also!

That being said, I believe you are right about letting our mind not fuss on the days activities but think "outside the box" while at rest. Frequently i can go to bed fretting about a question and when i wake up, I immediately announce the "answer" or solution out loud that was given to me in a dream. Freaks mr. foresterman out lol he wishes I would work on our taxes in my sleep too lol

Anonymous said...

I can have some pretty strange dreams, some of which are not very pleasant. For me, I think sometimes it's a way to revisit past situations to try and change the outcome -- in the dream, I mean. I haven't been very successful at that.

Joanna said...

This is such an interesting post, Miriam. You have had some mind blowing experiences and clearly have a second sight/sixth sense, whatever you want to call it. Cool!

I think I must be rather 'young' on my spiritual journey because my dreams are usually rather random and make no sense at all (last night's dream, for instance, I could fly like a fairy, some people saw me and then chose to burgle my home, when caught they tried to tell the police I could fly, who of course didn't believe them, and then as said burglars being taken away, I make sure they see me flying a victory loop-the-loop). See? Random.

Thanks for this thought provoking post. I'll pop over to Bobbi's blog top read her post about dreams.

I hope your back is starting to recover.

xx

BadPenny said...

I get a re- occurring dream where I am anxious about unfinished paperwork and it's under my bed....the kids once came in & found me looking under the bed for dead rabbits !
I had a horrible re-occurring dream as a child which scared me - I may post about it !

Hope you are beginning to feel better from your back pain xx